Solitude
Why is solitude essential? I have felt loneliness and experienced solitude for long periods of time in my life. I was forced to acknowledge depression, but eventually I learnt to use this time well: I...
View ArticleSavoir-faire: Week 13
Hello everyone, and Merry Christmas! It feels like a bit of a ‘bah humbug’ Christmas this year after everything we’ve been through. Nevertheless, here we are on ‘the big day’. Obviously, Christmas is...
View ArticleYour’re dating , you need to take care of yourself .
Wow, what a scary time we’re living in. Everyone is feeling alarmed and scared; but remember, it’s okay to feel scared. It’s okay to have a tearful moment or two, or even a full-on primal scream every...
View Articlereconsider your dating life and your ‘type’
Use this time wisely: focus on yourself and find out who you are and what you like. Life doesn’t normally give us much time to do this. If things aren’t working out in your dating search, reconsider...
View ArticleIt’s much more fun achieving things in life with a partner
Finding a great partner should be the top consideration in your life. It will affect every aspect of your life: your family, your friends and your career. It will also mean you can relax properly,...
View ArticleFocus and make space for another person.
Make space in your life for new energies and new interests. Be brave: don’t be afraid to change career or environment if you have been in the same position or place for too long. Sit quietly and think...
View ArticleYou are special and unique.
“Never love anyone who treats you like you’re ordinary.” Oscar Wilde certainly had an ear for a good quotation, didn’t he? He’s absolutely right, though. If you don’t perceive yourself as ordinary,...
View ArticleAnnoying Valentine’s day !
Valentine’s Day can be a really hard day for single people, an annoying reminder that so many people are happily coupled up. However, I can assure you that couples often find it hard too! A...
View ArticleWhat’s the scent of success?.
What’s the scent of success? As a matchmaker, I hear things that other people don’t; very honest things, such as an otherwise lovely match being rejected for wearing too much perfume or aftershave....
View ArticleSome tips to let people know you are single
I’ve always said that if only everyone who was single was easy to spot, life would be much so easier for single people! Here are some tips to make it known you are single. Make sure all your friends...
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